Tangodurians

  “we dance tango because we have secrets.” - Marilyn Cole Lownes    

You forget sometimes that Tango is so much a part of a person that any little jibe can be taken as an insult. Perhaps this is a general life lesson anyway, in that you never really want to hurt someone by insulting something they hold dear to their heart.

Cikgu said to me today that I was dancing like a little shy sparrow. I stared at him for a bit. Then decided to spread my wings and soar. He said that it became easier to dance with me. Lol. Sometimes you need someone to give you that push. You don't want to come out with guns blazing and then have someone look at you and go. WTF are you doing. You need that encouragement that is subtle, reinforcing, so that every time you start to dance, you remember that, hey, you can actually move, and move decently well.